WR, Your h sounds like a little boy who wants his friend around him, i.e., your son. Poor man, just doesn't get it.
I think you are handling your situation quite well and by not reacting to his comments, he has nothing to get his knickers in a twist about, except...the sun comes up and goes down each and every day. LOL!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
