Do not send that letter- but you already know that- its why your posting it
Your "fear" is getting the best of you. If/when she is ready she will approach you.
You dont need to serve up the guilt. I told my X to her face,in front of the mediator, that when its really over, send me the papers and ill sign- Im not filing.
We went through mediation and still NO PAPERS. Ill just keep rebuilding my life and embarrassing myself with members of the opposite sex:)
Your wife walked away, your wife filed......let her do what SHE needs to do.
Youve survived a bomb and have successfully bought a house. Are you feeling directionless right now?
Get your head out of the funk you are temporarily in.
Havent you already begged and pleaded enough????
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
