UGH. This really takes the cake. He does all this crap to push me away and get rid of me, but yet he is trying to hold on tight. Is this normal for MLC?

I guess I just need to distance myself even further from his drama. I read something online about how some people are addicted to drama and they do things to feed off your reaction so the best possible thing to do when you can't do complete "no contact" is to do "gray rock". Become as boring and "non-dramatic" as possible. Eventually drama addicts will get bored and try to create the drama somewhere else.

I am trying not to let his antics get to me. I am getting better. I hate the way he gets the kids in the middle. But I am just going to let that play out. Seems the more "hands-off" I am, the more things tend to work themselves out.

I really wish he would just leave me alone, but I suppose he is not capable of that. Maybe he never will be.

WH

AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012
Two kids, one dog
D Final 6/18/14
J marries OW 1/24/15
"No matter where you go, there you are"