I'm sorry you are struggling right now. You are correct that life isn't fair. However, there are also consequences to our actions. Please remember your h has to own his relationship with the kids. You shouldn't facilitate or navigate. It's all on him. And while I understand and can relate to the " how can he not see them?", again he must own that and all that comes with it.
We all want to protect our children and it is especially disheartening to protect them from the hurt of someone who loves them. However, it's all on your h.
Be kind to yourself.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
