I have a question,

Throughout this whole ordeal. I have been pleasant hello, good bye, have a nice day etc.

I haven't pushed social conversation or R talks at all.

When business type stuff comes up bills and the like. I have answered as best I could without putting up roadblocks so to speak.

Having no idea what I will be advised to do by my L when I get one.

Should I back off all talk and give the silent treatment like my W does to me. Or just continue as I have been?

When my W gets upset she gives me the silent treatment, when she thinks it is important for to ask certain things she will then talk to me. Pretty childish but I understand.

Is giving her a dose of her own medicine something to consider or not.

Oh did I mention this is hell.


Me 47/W 34
T 16 M 13
No kids
BD 6/2013
W asked that I move out 6/2013
I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013
separate beds not much talking
Served D Complaint 5/2014
W moved out 9/27/2014