I see that you have three sons, start making plans and doing things with them. Always have something to do, and they don't have to be big and extraordinary, just well thought out plans.
Keep doing it and planning ahead. Once you get some momentum you may invite your wife, but don't make the plans about her and make sure her answer about going or not does not change your plans.
Can't agree with this enough.
Thanks Stumps and gogofo. ^^^^ is certainly what I am trying to stay focused on. There are times where I really miss having someone (my W) to share a life with though - also sure that this sentiment is shared by many here.
Me-48,W-51 M-22,T-24 S- 18,16,9 Feb-Jul '11 Away from Home, after initial B date Aug-Dec '11 Back at Home on couch Dec '11-now Same bedroom, room mates only Dec '14 W files initial D paperwork
