"but in retrospect, we never got to "good piecing" because my wife was never willing to do the work, she was willing to return to the marriage, but not to dig deep and work with me to create something better."
I feel for you, Acc. This is an extremely difficult yet crucial fact to accept. I am at least thankful that she is willing to move out and that the kids will have you to help them through this.
"This time, there is sadness, I'm having the usual problems eating and sleeping, but there is also acceptance, and knowledge that I will weather the storm and come out stronger for it."
Amen. You're definitely strong enough to accept the feelings for what they are and not run from them. That, in the long run, may be one of the best examples you can share with your kids. =@@=
Me:45, W:45 S:16 D:13 M:22, T:25 Bomb: July 2010 Putting finances in order for "D" Continue to live in same home-separate rooms