Okay, an explosion of my posts have appeared. I guess I am off moderation?
I have been reading and reading and reading about situations where one partner drops a bomb and leaves and says all the usual things (I love you but I'm not in love with you, etc) and one thing has been troubling me.
Some H seem annoyed/irritated/angry, some seem happy and "free" and over the whole thing. And mine, in particular, seems sad to talk to me, almost like he's doing it out of obligation to make me feel better.
I'm curious about everyone else's opinion: is one of these better than the other? Does being angry at least show they have some regret? Does being happy mean they're actually happy?
