Originally Posted By: LoisB
He's only been here an hour and it feels like days.

I feel so badly for D11. He follows her around while she does her chores. It's awkward and weird.

I want to fix it for her, but I can't.


I may have missed it and I apologize in advance if I did. But is there any reason you had to stay? I mean, he's not actually unsafe with her, right?

So why not go out and have some free time of your own (to GAL!!) while he learns to bond with his daughter, on his own and without an audience?


Just Think about how you can restructure this ^^ scenario in a way where you don't make him a villain, and or in which you do not feel like a victim?



M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change