Well I live in a city, so that automatically makes it urban, in my mind lol
As far as eclectic, I want it to have a bit of a worldly feel. I've always purchased furniture in sets: in my apartment w/ H the coffee table, tv stand etc... were all matching cherry wood set from a furniture store. I want to let go of that... I think it's kind of a reflection of who I was...everything had to be just right...and I didn't realize just how boring that was.
So I now want more fun and color and few eye catching furniture pieces that look like or were made in other countries. Lots of patterns and textures.
It will be my personal oasis, b/c I just want it to love everything I see when I look around my place. Things that are aesthetically pleasing makes me happy. lol
It's nice to only have myself in mind when doing things....
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope