Thank you so much Breakdown and Sandi. I considered myself a DB success story and did not think it would come to this -- but such is life. I accept it for what it is and look forward to the next chapter.
Acc, you ARE a DB success story in the way YOU survived. Even in the last chapter of the book it speaks to things possibly ending in D. Your journey helped you to NOT be one of "those divorces".
I feel that your landing will be softer because of all that you have done. And I agree, your next partner will be very lucky indeed. As will you! you know what you want now (or at least what you don't want...). that's huge. I admire you.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14
