I am so sorry, Acc. I know how hard you tried and how much you were willing to accept.

The thing is that we should never do this at the expense of us.

You fought like hell for your marriage and your family.

You have acted with dignity and honor.

You have loved with all you have.

That all matters, A. It will matter even more in the future.

We can only be responsible for our half, though. Thats the truth of it. No matter how hard we fight, we cannot make up for their half.

You will be going through a lot of emotions. Be kind to yourself. By feeling them and working through them all, you come out the other side whole.

I know the betrayal and rejection brings you pain. It is not a lacking in you, but a lacking in her. Please try to remember this isnt your failure.

Take it one moment at a time. Do not make decisions when you are emotional.

Your children will be ok if you are. You get the honor of showing them how to navigate through life's difficult moments. Show them well.

I know you will continue to walk your journey with dignity and courage.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.