I'm sorry to hear this. Some of them just have to prove to themselves and everyone else that a divorce needs to be done in order for them to move on. Quite honestly, the only moving on that they truly do is in their heads (the one that is connected to the neck and shoulders).
Please take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
