Scooby, I did go over to the other forum and read your entire postings. They are pretty much the same as what you posted here except for the one issue that is going on right now. The advice that you are receiving there is pretty much the same as what we have been providing to you as well.
I'm very sorry that another situation has been thrown into the mix of what you are dealing w/right now.
Breathe! Stay calm and if you aren't sure what to do, then do nothing for now. Sit quietly and the answers will come. You can't make rational/logical decisions when you are emotionally charged. You have to find a way to look at your situation in a calm manner in order to find the right solution for you.
BTW, there are no set "scripts" for the mlcer. Scripts are just as unique as the mlcer is. Many of them say and do similar things, but it's the personalities and childhood issues that determine how the mlcer will write his/her scripts.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
