I decided to let it go and choose joy. If H wants to be a jerk and keep the kid's from me as much as possible then that's fine. He is just like his mother. He wil end up being a bitter, lonely and angry person as he gets older and wonder why his kid's want nothing to do with him.
Yesterday at D's game S was talking about getting some baby-sitting gigs and we were standing by his literature teacher who has four kid's. She said jokingly "yeah...I don't know anyone who has kid's". She asked S what he was saving his money for and H chimed in "it's almost Father's Day". I just rolled my eyes. S's teacher put him in her place and said, "yes, but Mother's Day is first and that takes priority so I have to vote for Mother's Day". H shut up after that. All the moms on that team know H's real self since he was stupid enough to bring OW to a game last fall. They have no sympathy for him.
So it's true. Drop the rope and let them hang themselves. Works every time.
WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
