Scooby, your thread is going to get locked. Time for a new one. ;-)
He spent $6,000 in ONE WEEK???? I know you're hurting and scared, but you NEED to face this spending issue. In about a million different ways, you've been saying it's time to get some legal help.
Instead of beating around the bush...get to an attorney Scooby or just file for a temporary order of support at the local child support enforcement agency...it's free.
If you need us to walk you through it, we can all help. I ignored this advice and it led to more pain down the road for me AND the kids.
NO divorce/filing, nada...just protect yourself financially. There's a lot you can do. You are not powerless.
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson