I know know and I agree with you.... Everything you said. I do feel like what happened has shifted the balance of this sitch to something more bearable. It may just be for now but at least it's somewhat easier to manage life. One step at a time.

I still love him and man do I still miss him. But I'm getting divorced. And this is going to change my world. I still play to have my husband back one day. Until then, I have to let him go.


Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month