On to Divorce and still litigating...new life.

[FloydMan]

Thanks everyone. Some great points. At times the whole thing and past 3 years still seems surreal. Ya, a couple more things have gotten back to me. She feels the need to lie about things and about me but I gotta shake it. I will not spend the rest of my life feeling I need to defend my self for things that are untrue. Saw her a lot today as we were both at D15's ball tournament. Probably more uncomfortable for our friends than us. It was the most easy i have felt in her presence in a couple years. We did not speak or make eye contact at all but very close proximity. The kids seemed uncomfortable and that is bothersome. She emails me for info on schedules, plans with kids etc etc but never replies to my simple inquiries. I try to be cordial. That's the way it is. How and why she is more bitter than I is anyone's guess. That I will never comprehend.
As far as rebound relationships, ya, I agree. Like to go out and be in company but an R not ready for. I was involved with someone for several months a while back but just didn't feel right. Have dated a lot but stepped back from that in recent months. The destruction of a family seems so senseless and the fallout even more so. I am doing better overall and as time goes on it is better everyday. Sometimes just very sad.