I feel like I am the one who holds the key, the answers.. The one that makes a difference. Does any of you feel this way?

When the heated argument broke between son and XH, I was contacted by both. close to the end of the conversation with XH, I told him "Wait... How are you doing, you, personally ? " He started to cry uncontrollably and said " it doesn' t matter I guess " me: YES IT DOES !!!! him: " just come and get him "..
My son had told XH that he wanted to return home... . One day prior to him moving back, the fight broke out. I went and got son. The next day, son changed his mind and said he might have made his decision to fast. School registration was done for the second semester but with a few glitch.. some of the courses he needed were given before x-mas so his schedule was re-arranged and solution were found.on-line class.. Son had concerns about school. he did tell me that he likes the school overthere and finds people nicer.. He says he made it very clear to OW that he did not move there to be with them but TO BE WITH HIS FATHER. he said she doesn' t bother with him and he is fine with that. He admits his dad is NOT HOME as much as he said he would be and he is often alone hanging around in his room or up town with his friends. Son is on a rollercoaster. Teen. 2 weeks ago, he texted me a Hello. I asked how he was doing and he answered:" well, you know, ups and down . you?" I said "same". He replied" smile yes" me: "need to talk?" him: " I think i'll come down this week-end " . me:" sure! I' ll come and get you if you need a ride "

Son was here 3 week-ends in a row. he almost made it 4 this week-end but decided to stay over there cause his best friend here was out of town. Plus, my oldest had a volley tournament and my 2 youngest were going there.