congrats on finishing court, eric has some good advice there for sure. if you have a local divorce group I highly recommend it, i went to one that was a 6 week seminar based on a book (met once a week for an hour and a half) and it helped me a lot. It recommends waiting to jump into a relationship too. Now the future is yours, time to set the past aside and focus on you and your kids. We're here for you smile take care

Me - 42
exH - 56
Married 10.5 years
Together 17
bomb dropped 1/6/14
signed papers 2/4/14
H moved out 2/22/14
D final 4/4/14
Dropped the rope 5/17/14
2 cats, 2 dogs