Just sending some support your way, you're right, it is bizarre - but bizarre is normal for MLC smile It sounds like he is doing some work on himself though so at least he knows that there is some serious stuff going on inside and he's trying to deal with it. I think your idea to keep working on yourself is all you can do. Let him go figure it out and go on as if he's not coming back. You sound pretty good considering - like you're taking care of you. Keep that up smile


Me - 42
exH - 56
Married 10.5 years
Together 17
bomb dropped 1/6/14
signed papers 2/4/14
H moved out 2/22/14
D final 4/4/14
Dropped the rope 5/17/14
2 cats, 2 dogs