Breathe! The visit is over and sounds like everything went well. I'm glad your daughter is speaking up and actually telling him what is on her mind. He's hearing it right from her and not you. So, it will give him plenty to think about and maybe next time he'll speak to her ahead of time about going places and not waiting until he's actually in the room with her.
Things will get better in time. It's always painful and hurtful when dealing w/the MIA spouses, but in time, once everything is settled and finalized, the stress will be over and you and your girls can move forward and create a new life for all.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
