Hi Mustardseed some of your story resonates..I a trying to figure if depression is still there.. My H is having an affair which is getting complicated at work, he attempted suicide 18 mongns ago and won't share his plan because you always need a "back door". the always angry tone and behaviour he told me is because he feels under pressure. I am not sure it makes a difference what the cause is.. the PMA is all you can do because the only person you can change is yourself. but the constant irritation is tough to deal with. sounds like you are on the right track..with PMA..
