Getting close to the end!!

[kenva]

First day of being divorced!! Doesn't feel any different today from last year. Other than its reality. Still sad today but I do have my s till tues. I look back and see all the hard work I have done the past couple of years from talking to my coach,friends,co parenting therapist,people here,family and even her family. And I want to thank everyone for there input. I have come to realize even tho this is still hard to swallow and now I am labeled as a divorcee that I am a better person and the better person from our marriage. I feel sorry for my ex wife, wow , got to get used to that, that she is the one that is going to miss out. She has a problem w in herself and needs help. Talking to her friends and the OM won't help her. I just wish she had come to reality that what she is living is still a fantasy. I hope and pray that the rest of you out there going thru this can have a better outcome w there relationships. I am divorced now and know that I still have a hard road ahead of me still and know that I still have to work hard at it.