BTW, I was reading through your older posts - I appreciated how when things started to change this past fall, you linked back to an older post (Nov. 2012, I think?) where you had the convo w/ your H where he was DONE and wanted to get things settled but didn't want to hurt your feelings, etc. Every situation is different but... it gives me hope that things may change with some time and thought.
You've talked about how you and your H didn't interact that often, but yet it was the changes he saw in you that led him "back"... were you actively trying to use those limited times together to show what was different or was it just naturally who you were at that point, but enough was different that he could see it even if you saw each other for 10, 20 minutes? I hope that makes sense, it does in my head but hard to type out. How did you show you've changed when you have limited interaction, I guess, is my question?
Me:30 H:29, no kids T:12, M:4 (when D was final) 12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore" 6/14: Separated (I move) 1/15: H filed for D 5/15: D final