Have you thought about blocking her? I did that to my exw recently. It took some strentgh but I noticed that I obssessed over her life. Now there is silence in my brain
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”