I was going to write this long post and then I realized that everything I was going to say was already addressed by AK, Drew and Wonka.
I will add one thing....
Read AK and Drew posts to you. Read them over and over again.
You have filed for divorce. She has kidnapped your kids.
You still want to talk and be nice?
Honestly, grab your sacks.. and start doing what YOU want - not what anyone else tells you to do or what your w ALLOWS you to do.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
