She left - 4

[gogofo]

From what I understand my W felt that I did not even love her enough to take the time to plan an evening or weekend or trip for the two of us. My actions caused her to feel like she was unimportant and now that we are married I do not have to try anymore.

She eventually stopped planning things for us to do and not only did I not take up the slack and plan something, I failed to notice that we stopped doing things all together. This really made her feel invaluable and unloved.

For her me taking the initiative to plan something for us shows her that I care about her and think about her and love her. It's all about the action.