No Sandi I paid for the trip. We will lose her fare but that doesn't worry me.
She signed the letter tonight but was clearly upset.
she said ' well I hadn't decided whether I was going or not but obviously you have'
She says she is worried about how the boys will react to her not going but they more or less know anyway.
I think she is just worried about how she is going to be for two weeks when they are gone.