I was a very harsh judge of myself and when we are extremely critical of ourselves, we are usually just as critical of others.
So in learning to accept me as I am, without judging every little thing, forgiving myself when I'm not perfect, I can extend that same grace to others.
And let the past be the past.
I like this post. Wonder if this is also often paired with "controlling" traits?
Me-48,W-51 M-22,T-24 S- 18,16,9 Feb-Jul '11 Away from Home, after initial B date Aug-Dec '11 Back at Home on couch Dec '11-now Same bedroom, room mates only Dec '14 W files initial D paperwork