You guys are awesome. And I agree that the phone is an insignificant casualty in the grand scheme of things. He *did* get it through AT&T. And that's who he talked to today to suspend service.
He just let me know a little while ago that he received an "info text" from Snapchat (which he and OW used), with OW's name somehow attached to it, informing him that Snapchat now allows messaging.
H wrote to me: "How convenient! I bet she thought I'd message her and you wouldn't find out. So I deleted the app."
I thanked him for letting me know.
For right now, I'm pretty happy with how things are progressing.
Thank y'all SO much for your feedback!!!! Hearts to you all.
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014