wow LT - seems like you have really been dealt with some challenging issues! Sounds like you are doing well considering the circumstances....
Not a lot of advice to offer but thoughts and prayers are with you.
Stay strong - your girls will need you more than ever!
Me-48,W-51 M-22,T-24 S- 18,16,9 Feb-Jul '11 Away from Home, after initial B date Aug-Dec '11 Back at Home on couch Dec '11-now Same bedroom, room mates only Dec '14 W files initial D paperwork