I really don't think that you need to decid e whether you are still "standing" at the moment. All you need to do is worry about you and keep walking forward. Let go of the outcome because that really is freeing. You don't need to decide today whether or not you could have a future with your H.
I think its just because it came up in IC that its made me think more deeply about it I suppose - I most certainly am just thinking of myself & moving forwards, feel like the weight of the world has been lifted off my shoulders
Divorce Final: Oct 2014
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