Just a suggestion, but why don't you ask your W if she'd like to join you and your D? She'll probably say 'no', but it would show your strength of character and that just because she's acting badly doesn't mean that you will stoop to her level.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.