Okay, but how? I've been turned down or it just has not happened (invitation was loose, and not for a particular time) on (starting with the most boring): going to the car wash together, just taking a walk (we live on a lake and there is a nice walk along it), going food shopping together, going to a movie, going to a local nature reserve known for its early spring flowers, going for a run together, going to London for a weekend, etc. I am not physically ugly or embarassing to be with, I think.

W and d16 go running together, went bird watching last week, garden together, watch films together, etc.

The longest time d16 and I were together last week was when she unexpectedly asked me to walk her to the train station and (bless our lousy train system) the train was 25 minutes late. A whole 30 minutes with her, no W around, very nice.

I feel powerless in this -

Luke


M58, xW54
S22, D18
M 1984, D 2016
Living a new life.