In February h went to my country and saw my mom. He told her he was not thinking of D anymore. He never told me that.

If I were to guess I would say It seems he had realized that he does not want that for the kids either. And I suppose that with all the conversations we have had over the past week, he never brought up the subject when he easily could of. I am just realizing how grateful I am for that....

I have been thinking today and I am just going to step back from our sitch for the time being. We spoke A LOT. I need to think of Job right now ... Sit quietly And the answers will come and move forward with myself and the kids.

I plan on wrapping up my teaching work a few weeks before the school year ends so I can go back to my mom. H will stay with the kids. So I am grateful for that .

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home