I don't know if you've read my recent threads but for me, it's been helpful to put the R first and keep my ego in check. Being able to do a quick gut check on motives relative to values and ego can save you from many troubles.
Boundaries are important.
It's a job but it becomes easier over time.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
