We have been at it a long time. It is so hard to be patient. To wait. yes, I am doing for me as I know you are doing for yourself.

There is though that draining, dragging feeling of something missing. I know I am keeping that attached by standing. will it automatically go away when we d?

I don't have time right now in my life to date or an affair as much as I think... wouldn't it be nice...I miss physical comfort. I miss someone thinking about me.

it is so tough. Day by day we carry on. I too think my h is sad and confused. I know what a great thing it is that he has given up.
I sadly think my h does not think about me.
he stays very involved with his job and now he admits to dating. the a I suppose is over.

while hasn't your h filed?
I am waiting on the settlement proposal from my h. I have said nothing to him.


M48 H50
M21 T26
S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old
PA confirmed 7/2012
H separates 9/2012
H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY
OW still in picture. h filed 10/13