Life's a Picnic

[whytry]

I really like AJMs comment-"you know he's dazed and confused". And that your needs count. Granted it's awkward that I feel compelled to speak up but my W found how to be happy without me. I can't speak for all her needs being me but she enjoyed our children, her job teaching, and her running. I'm just now learning to go back to my fun hobbies. It does cause friction, but I think if we are both happy our children will be happier.

Back to the confused comment, I was and sometimes still feel bad, but I've since learned that my issue has some family ties. Not sure if your H does? My anger issues are like my fathers that drove my mom to divorce him. My cousin that is separated from his wife because of it. My uncle that went through also but t hey stayed together. Longer than I intended, but my family is 1 for 2 with me at bat so we'll see.