Wonka, you are absolutely right, I needed to be honest and tell them that I already accepted another offer. Honesty is always the best policy. I went to the interview just to see what is out there and what they had to offer. I didnt expect them to be so in love with me. Now I feel bad about not telling them up front about my other offer.
They actually sent an offer to me today and the benefits package. It is similar to the first offer. There are some advantages working for the first company, but there are other advantages working for the second one too. I liked people who interviewed me in both companies. And these are both good companies.
So, after some thinking I decided to keep the original offer. Im sending a declining letter to the second one.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state