No, 2TH - I can't say that I have found the middle ground with communication just yet. To be honest, I think I am just working my way through the anger and "wtf" stage here recently so I know a change in communication style is probably coming. That is NOT to say that I plan on increasing communication....I have, indeed, gone dark and do not really respond unless I have to and I certainly do not reach out proactively....not anymore. Without really speaking about it, I think she knows where I am with everything. As noted before, I believe I am saying a lot more with silence than I ever really did in writing or other forms of communication.
I am sure that as times moves on I will find the middle ground for interaction....and get better at it. Before OM, it was fairly decent......but I am not there yet.
