Oh, how true Bklyn! My WAS started out so very worried about how her and I getting D would hurt the kids, now she says "We all hurt our kids, they'll get over it" (yeah, but most don't hurt them knowingly and on purpose, just to "find their joy" a direct quote!). They can rationalize just about ANY bad behavior as long as it makes what they are doing "OK"!
It's ALL about them and their "happiness"!(Then why do they all seem so miserable?)
