And then, he pulled his chair really, really close to mine and put his face close to mine ... and said yes. He wants to work things out. He wants back in our M.
THEN, however, he told me had plans to meet OW later in the night. I told him, if he truly wanted to commit to our M, that I would not be okay with that. I reminded him what he had told me in the conversation the other day about not being able to promise they wouldn't have sex. I told him, first: "I'm not your BFF. I'm your wife. It's incredibly disrespectful for you to talk to me about 'christening your apartment' - or NOT - with OW. It's disrespectful for you to talk to me about sex and OW *at all*. Second, no. You can't tell me in one breath you want to work on our M and in the next breath that you're meeting her later tonight."
This ^^^ had me smiling in my office when I read this just now!
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He said: "Well, she's the one who said she wants to meet. I'm going to listen to what she has to say."
I replied: "Then I'm not ready for you to be my H again. And you're apparently not where you need to be to really be open to working on our M."
He said: "Maybe I'm not then. I don't know."
And I said: "Looks like we both have some big decisions to make."
. . . and then THIS ^^^ had me doing this stage-whisper "YES! YESSS!!!" thing and pumping my fist in the air!!
And then THIS:
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He wrote: "You know what? F*** meeting. I'll write her a text. I might come over there to hide out for a while though."
I said: "Just let me know if you decide to come over."
And he responded: "I'm gonna have to, she's liable for some crazy sh!t. How should I word this (text)?"
And, Starsky ... wait for it ... wait for it ...
I said: "Your mess. You clean it up."
. . . had my CLAPPING MY HANDS, OUT LOUD, IN MY OFFICE!!!! Woot! Woot!!!! Where's that STANDING OVATION emoticon???
And then Wonka beat me to the punch, but I'll do it anyway:
Yes, it's the HIGHLY coveted "Puppy's 4-Whistles Award." Not available in stores.
I think I may -- if I have your permission? -- link to your thread, for some others to follow. Cuz THIS . . . is how it's DONE, people.
