I am stuck on Step 3. Since my husband has been tuning me out and is set on selling everything, moving out and getting a divorce, at this point i am not sure he cares what I want and I cannot determine what he wants.

He has resolved that we are now living seprate lives, altho living together. he just doesnt want to fix us, we tried once before and it didnt work. (Although we didnt really try). We will not do anything together, go anywhere together. Only discuss common household/business issues.

I have been looking at myself and make myself the person that I should have been, remain positive, etc.
This all seems so extreme and unnecessary. there wasnt anything really so wrong with us, that cant be worked on and fixed. I am so confused and scared.

Has anyone had any luck or ideas on how to turning this type of situation around? I really want a 2nd chance.