[Maritimer]

Here is the letter im thinking about sending.


"Hey W, before I revise the parenting plan you presented I just wanted to make sure that this is what you really want for our family.

I understand why you did what you had to in Dec of 2012 and I want to thank you for that. It took a lot of courage and strength to make that choice. I did a lot of self-reflection and decided I needed a change for the better. As a result I became my confident, awesome self again! I developed the patients of a saint, became a better son, bother and mostly a wonderful father to our precious boys. I made some healthy choices over the last 17 months and now I look & I feel the best I have in years! These changes are something I am so proud of and will be continuing to do for the rest of my days.

I don’t want to revisit our old marriage. It is dead & gone. What I would like is for us to slowly with professional help, start a new healthy relationship together. I know we can both do this if we are willing to try. We fell in love with each other before and know it can happen again.

We have 2 beautiful children that love us both so much. It is painful to watch them cry when one of us departs for any period of time. Just imagine how happy they would be with both of us together as a nurturing fun loving family.

You’re an incredible mother + Im an awesome dad = a family with wickedly fun happy kids!

Im in no rush for a response, Think about it and let me know how you feel about this."


Any opinions would be greatly appreciated!