4th Down And Getting A Little Anxious

[BklynMom]

Of course your teenage husband doesnt want to pay for therapy that cuts into his play money. He will turn it around and say therapy doesnt work for kids but its really about him. This whole thing is about him.

You are doing amazing. This is so hard. I think your right that the kids will love to see the dog at their dads house. I find my kids have very little to do when they are at their dads house so I think having the dog there will be great.

These day I disagree with the advice to go dark. To me it seems like a ploy or scheme to get them back. I dont think you should be forwarding jokes to your H but I think we should contact them as much as needed in regard to the kids etc.

When I went dark shortly after my H moved out - I dont think he noticed or gave a sh!t but I do think I did not take care of some of my needs in order to stand my ground and not contact him