buz 28: finally feeling worthy... a new beginning

[makingmagic]

Thanks Heather... I guess I didn't consider that I am rejecting help. Because I am so eager and desperate for it... didn't even make sense to me.

Not sure why your comment bugged me so much... maybe because it had nothing to do with my situation and was taking the focus elsewhere for several comments.

I do appreciate when I need to look at something & I am able to see it. I do try to consider ALL of the comments that people make... I am able to "try things on" and see if it resonates. That means there is room for growth. I want to grow and learn.

Tx for clarifying Heather... I appreciate it.

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A red flag has come up....

I do see that Xbf was prepared to be exclusive with me, he agreed when it was suggested & had been "acting" exclusively, in his own mind. However, when presented in text...he got squirmy, non-committal.

This makes me want to retract and avoid coffee/talks and protect myself from potential set-up/hurt. After discussion with a woman from my group, she suggested that I continue for the next 2 days having light convo & coffee connection time and then see if he pursues for a date this weekend. "IF" a date is arranged, then he is agreeing to be exclusive without the words. If not, he may need more time to decide or that may be an answer in itself.