thanks cczamo I do have a list of things to do, mostly yard items that need to be taken care of. Going out Saturday with my girlfriends to hear a band, and taking time for me to just relax, watch a movie, decompress. There is something freeing about wandering around in my pajamas, having coffee, only having my self to take care of, not worrying about "are lunches made" "is the ironing done" "is the laundry put away" I mean I still do those things but more on my timetable and feeling no real pressure. No more wondering about what mood exH will be in, and that in turn doesn't ruin my mood either. Yep, I like that quote - keep looking up... thanks for posting it!
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs
