I like Job's new approach of asking questions. I think the point is that if someone continually gets defensive about truths you're trying to show them, and therefore is resistant to seeing them, then it may work better to step back and ask questions that allow them to explore the truth themselves and come to it on their own.
It's the "how's that working for you?" approach. There's nothing there to argue, may leave space for introspection.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
