Originally Posted By: Upwards
A big worry at the moment is that if him & OW get serious it will bring a whole new set of problems as I will not allow her to see my kids under any circumstances & will fight this in court if needed, the nature of their R at the moment seems to be friends with benefits but who knows how it will play out.


Why do you feel this way? Is there danger to the kids, or is this frustration and anger bubbling up?

I'd be careful here...you can't control who your H sees, who he chooses to introduce your children to, or how he behaves when he has the children. And make no mistake, they will not do it the way you would.

Originally Posted By: Upwards
I'm focusing a lot on GAL but most importantly I'm focusing on my children an trying to provide a stable and loving home for them regardless of the fact that their Daddy is a complete & utter fool!!


This part started so confident and strong...but ended bitter. Think about it...


M:44 W:42
M:15
S:19, D:16, S:14, D:12, S:6
BD: 2/14/11
D Final: 6/25/13